56 Pilling report – reflections pt 2

This is the concluding section of James’ very wise reflection on the Pilling report.  Among other things it picks up the fact that certain Christian groups find it hard to tolerate opinions that are different from their own.  Unbending inflexible opinion in the Church is something that many of us find hard to stomach.  We know the effect it has on people within the Church and the impression it gives to those outside.  This blog wants to defend people from all kinds of tyranny and enforced ideas.  The damage of such things is too great.

The Science of Homosexuality. In 2009, Gillian Cooke and Alan Sheard in ‘Christianity and Homosexuality in the 21st century’ stated that “the (scientific) evidence is clear that sexual orientation, whether hetero or homosexual, is not under the control of the voluntary will and is determined by the time of birth, partly by genetics but more specifically by hormonal activity in the womb.” Pilling, four years on, states: “The idea that science can give us clear and unequivocal answers, even on its own terms let alone in the field of morality, turns out to be over-optimistic.” These two statements can’t both be right. The reason this matters is because it addresses a key question: Are homosexual desires sinful? The so-called ‘Higton motion’ passed by General Synod in 1987 (and which Pilling observes is still valid) states: “homosexual genital acts…fall short of this ideal (an act of total commitment), and are (likewise) to be met with a call to repentance and the exercise of compassion.” If you call someone to repentance (and how often do we these days hear a call for repentance to any other kind of sin than homosexuality?) you must accept per se that there is a sin which requires repentance. Therefore the science is critical. If homosexuality is not an act of choice but is pre-determined at birth, might it be God-given, and if it is God-given, how can it possibly be sinful?

In view of the critical nature of this question, the visible science in the report is lamentable. The Royal College of Psychiatrists’ submission is the only one that the panel received from a scientific body, and its thin evidence is belittled in the report by the ‘Core Issues Trust’. This Trust is a non-scientific body which seeks to encourage those trying to move away from their homosexuality. They are one of a raft of Christian-based bodies globally who are desperate to prove that people can be ‘cured’ of their homosexuality, so far with not a shred of evidence that such ‘treatment’ is effective and with a growing body of evidence globally which implies that such treatment can be deeply damaging to gay people. N Coulton showed in 2005 that homosexuals accounted for more than half the male youth deaths from suicide in this country. This evidence is brushed aside in Pilling, courtesy of S L Jones, who is quoted as saying that any psychological distress arises because homosexuality “cuts against a fundamental, gender-based given of the human condition.”

The Interpretation of Scripture. The Bishop of Birkenhead claims that his position on scripture is the traditional one in the church, but this ignores Augustine of Hippo’s statement, (which goes back much further than the Bishop’s literalist views) that it is our duty always to seek the most charitable interpretation of the text. As we know, Christians through history have used the Bible to support slavery, the death penalty, apartheid, the suppression of women in the Church and the barring of remarriage among those divorced, among many other things now considered unacceptable. If the Bible is so clear, why have we changed our views on these things? And why is it that those who think the Bible is clear are so selective in their reading? There are very few verses in the Bible that actually address homosexuality. One of them, Leviticus 20:3, states: “If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall be put to death; their blood is upon them.” Why is it that Pilling quotes not this verse but Leviticus 18:22, which does not refer to the death penalty? Could it be that those who would want us all to take the Bible literally might find it uncomfortable to campaign to bring back the death penalty for homosexuality, particularly in the light of their statement that they “welcome the presence and ministry of gay and lesbian people”? Or should we, when identifying ‘tradition’, read history selectively? It’s not the only place in the report where claims are made to have the only definitive answer. The Report as a whole, and the Bishop of Birkenhead’s submission in particular, makes a number of jaw-dropping claims about scripture. For example, The Bishop states that an exclusive relationship between one man and one woman for life is ‘the only form of partnership approved by God.’ It’s hard to know where to start with such a prejudicial reading of the scriptures and it’s frankly frightening that we have people with such views as Bishops in the Church of England. There is actually no word in Hebrew that means ‘marriage’ in our modern sense. The phrase used instead is ‘to take or give a woman or daughter as a wife.’ Anyone who has studied the position of women even in the first century, let alone through the Old Testament period, would shudder at the thought of women being returned to such a state of ‘biblical marriage’, held out as exemplary by the Bishop.

One of the aspects of Church life for which we may have our new Archbishop of Canterbury to thank is an encouragement to deal with controversial issues by a process of facilitated discussion and listening. Such a move must surely be welcome in a Church where so many hurl bricks at others who hold opposing views, whom they may never have met, let alone engaged with. However, the monumental task ahead, upon which the whole of the future of this debate depends, is underlined by the fact that the Bishop of Birkenhead states: “I am in agreement with Recommendations 5-7”, but he dissents from the rest. Recommendations 5-7 cover rejecting homophobia and making a commitment to pay close attention to the science. But, pointedly, he does not agree with Recommendation 11, which encourages “the Church to continue to engage openly and honestly and to reflect theologically….to discern the mind of Christ and what the Spirit is saying to the Church now”, which is one of the main conclusions of Pilling. Why? Because the Bishop fells that if facilitated listening and discussion take place, they will undermine the Church’s teaching. So we should apparently refuse to listen to debate and address this subject with a closed mind? If this is what he is proposing, and he seems to be, let me quote the Bible back to him. In Acts 7, there is the story of the stoning of the first Christian martyr, St Stephen. There we read “they covered their ears and with a loud shout all rushed against him.” Isn’t covering of ears exactly what happens when abuse takes place? Isn’t it as true now as it was in the first century? Isn’t it the story that Stephen has written about on this very blog, relating to Trinity Church, Brentwood?

The Issue of Church Leaders. The official Church policy on active homosexual relationships, which Pilling saddles us with for at least another two years, sets a lower standard for ‘laity’ than for those who wear a dog collar. The policy, which Pilling seems to think is acceptable, includes this statement: “Because of the distinctive nature of their calling, status and consecration the clergy cannot claim the liberty to enter into sexually active homophile relationships”. I must admit to a shudder when reading these words, which surely cannot be healthy if we are serious about driving abuse out of our churches? I would even go so far as to suggest that this statement is close to idolatrous. Pilling states that it is legitimate for the Church to require higher standards of conduct for its clergy than for laity. We have seen elsewhere on this blog, particularly from Chris’s posts, how dangerous it is to place clergy on such a ‘holiness pedestal’, using words like ‘distinctive’, ‘status’ and ‘consecration’. How does this play into the abuse issues that we’ve looked at on the survivingchurch blog? Requiring clergy who may have been born with attraction to members of the same sex to live their lives in celibacy might sound like a good idea if you start from a position that homosexuality is a sin. But the history of churches where celibacy is a requirement for the priesthood, would not suggest that this rules out abuse; rather the opposite. And, worst of all, it implies that it is perfectly acceptable to be an autocratic and domineering leader, so long as you are married to someone of the opposite sex. How sad. How very, very sad. Surely there can’t be any safe or fair standard for clergy other than equality with the people in the pews and a commitment to see themselves as sinful people ministering to other sinful people? Anything else must surely be doomed to fail and to lead to further abuse?

Summary. The Pilling Report looks like an old-fashioned English fudge to me. Sir John Pilling seems to have glimpsed the intractability of the disagreement underlined by this issue, which probably exceeds even that of the debate on Women Bishops, and has decided to kick the can two years down the road. This may well result in an even bigger problem breaking out in 2016, if no consensus is possible even then, which seems likely. Who are the losers? It’s not those who will vote with their feet and decide that the Church, as a place that rejects them and everything they stand for, is a place that they can do without. No, the real losers will be those clergy who can’t let go of their deeply-held faith, despite being rejected by their own Church, and even more so for their partners, who have even less choice. And finally, those in same sex relationships who sit in the pews whose hopes have been dashed by Pilling and who will continue to feel the pain of being told from the rooftops that they must repent, by a Church whose feet are set in clay.

 

About Stephen Parsons

Stephen is a retired Anglican priest living at present in Cumbria. He has taken a special interest in the issues around health and healing in the Church but also when the Church is a place of harm and abuse. He has published books on both these issues and is at present particularly interested in understanding how power works at every level in the Church. He is always interested in making contact with others who are concerned with these issues.

4 thoughts on “56 Pilling report – reflections pt 2

  1. Well, I agree with the general thrust of what you say, but in the first paragraph, you say that if you are born gay, it cannot be a sin. The church does not say that being gay is wrong, it says that gay sex acts are wrong. While I may very well agree with you on this, you have elided the two, and they are different.
    The science. I think the jury is still out on this. It’s clear that for most aspects of our human character and behaviour, nurture is also important. And what about identical twins? Same genetics, same womb, not always same sexuality. Also, some people are obviously betwixt and between. I know one gay man in a long standing partnership who “went straight” and got married and had a baby. I know two women in civil partnerships who were married before. One widowed, one divorced. I also know a couple, not I think in a partnership, yet, who were both married before. I don’t think any of these women would want to dis their previous relationships, and none were “desperately unhappy and in denial of their true nature”! We are just very complicated.
    As for clergy somehow being viewed as better than the laity. Well, we all know clergy who do think that! But it’s more about two other things. Firstly, there’s nothing you can do about the bloke who sits quietly behind the pillar of a Sunday, but you can ask your employees to follow certain rules. This leaves the Readers, the Licensed Lay MInisters slightly up a gum tree. Obviously, no-one remembered they existed when they wrote the first set of guidelines. The new ones under Pilling, do rather absurdly say that Readers don’t have to follow the same rules as clergy. The point of asking the clergy to follow the highest moral standards seems reasonable to me. Of course, whether making love with your same sex partner is somehow lowering your moral standards is the point at issue. The thing is, at present the church asks people to follow certain rules. If a person who has not paid a fine is sent to prison, it doesn’t mean that he has been sent to prison for not paying a parking fine, it means that they have been sent to prison for contempt of court. And it does seem to me that there is a case to be made for saying that you should not show contempt for the church by openly flouting its rules. Now, I’m playing devil’s advocate here, because I think the rules are inhumane, and too much notice has been paid to those who are just plain homophobic.
    Pilling doesn’t actually say that it’s OK to be a bully as long as you’re hetero! But I have a bee in my bonnet about bullying clergy, and I bet mine’s bigger than yours! The pilling report needed to be written because of the same sex marriage laws. I share your wish that the something could be done about bullies.
    By the way, if you’re a bloke, why did you say you weren’t a “sir”?

  2. Thanks for several very good points.. I started to get lost towards the end.

    Many thanks for remembering Readers! Very few in this debate do.

    If clergy are put on a pedestal, the other side of the coin is that the status of the baptised is downgraded. But it’s about the idea that clergy are called to set a good example, and can be disciplined if they fall too far short of doing that. It is a dangerous position, and it’s right to point to how it can be twisted, but the general idea is deeply engrained in the church on so many levels, including the ordination liturgy. I am not sure we can or should do without it completely. It can perhaps only work though if the clergy set an example of true penitence and humility, not of holier-than-thouness. Those clergy who share their failings and struggles, confess their mistakes and sins in appropriate ways, take the blame when they should and demonstrate a life of redemption and grace are the ones who truly lead their flocks.

    Of course, why should clergy think it is more moral not to have an active gay partnership? If there’s nothing wrong in what they are doing, such a demand is outrageous. They are not being asked to live up to the highest moral standards, they are being asked to sacrifice their sexuality and chance of loving partnerships because other people feel it is necessary they should be made to pander to beliefs they totally reject.

  3. Hi English Athena. I would wish to avoid sounding defensive! It’s an accusation I would level at many priests in the C of E and it’s not healthy. However, I do feel the need to reply to some of your points. On the science, I’m not a scientist, but what I wrote is based on a paper by Gillian Cooke and Alan Sheard that you can download from here : http://www.modernchurch.org.uk/publications/fw.htm. If you are a scientist, please do tell me where this paper is wrong; I’m keen to learn and the authors don’t give their background, so they may not be scientists either. My reading of this paper is that what is described there concerning the development of the hypothalmus in the baby in the womb could easily explain how one twin could be born gay and the other not? If you want to believe that the jury’s still out on the science, that’s fine. I’m just pointing out that there’s no real scientific evidence provided to back up this bald statement in Pilling – it’s desperately short on VISIBLE science (and if there was some behind the scenes, why didn’t they report on it?).
    I thought I had carefully tried to avoid stating that all homosexual acts were absolutely fine! I would not wish to support ‘switching sexuality’ just for the hell of experimenting. My point was supposed to be that I think it’s unreasonable for the church to ask people to renounce their sexuality, the desires they’re born with. If we’re born heterosexual, I don’t think we should be at liberty to switch; if only because I’m aware of cases where people ‘experiment’ and then cruelly drop their homosexual partners who had fallen in love with them, when they decide that maybe they’re not homosexual after all. This is really nothing more than promiscuity, which we should not encourage as a church. Again, I’m happy for you to believe that no-one is born homosexual. I would only say that I have friends who have no other experience. On the issue of conflating homosexuality and homosexual acts, if homosexuality is not a sin, can homosexual acts between two people born gay or lesbian be? I’m asking the question; we all have to make up our own minds, but on balance I believe that for most gays this is a permanent, lifelong condition that they become aware of in early puberty and one from which they cannot escape. Is it right for people in this situation to be called to repent?
    As for your point about Readers, I believe there is an explanation other than that they were simply forgotten. Many senior folks in the C of E treat Readership as something of a joke, and would certainly not wish to suggest that Readers share the ‘consecration’ of those who have been ordained. The ordained are ‘special’. This view I believe goes back to the ‘Apostolic Succession’, and it’s a view that, in my opinion, can all-too-easily support abuse.
    Finally, yes I’m a ‘bloke’. I’m not a ‘sir’ as this implies some kind of status or authority or position which, as you’ve seen, I positively don’t claim!
    Finally, Haikusinenomine thanks for your points which I agree with. Unfortunately, my experience has been that those who call loudly for repentance in others are the very same ones who would never set an example of true repentance and humility. One of the reasons why I’m uncomfortable with their theology is because I think it tries to argue that some people, and particularly the ordained/those in leadership, can lead lives free of sin. I do believe that some people can get close, but my experience has been that they tend to be those who have the humility to avoid judging others.

  4. I thought this letter in this week’s Church Times was admirably clear, well grounded and relevant to this blog’s discussion of the topic in relation to the distribution and / or abuse of power in the church, as well as the global political / church-political context.

    From Canon Colin Craston

    Sir, – The Global South Primates are deeply concerned about divisions in the Anglican Communion clearly manifest in matters such as homosexuality and gender issues. They want the Archbishop of Canterbury to call a Primates’ Meeting in 2015 to address these concerns. They need to be reminded that the government of the Church in Anglicanism is not simply decided by episcopal leaders.

    It is “episcopal leadership in council with clergy and laity”, in other words, synodical. The Lambeth Conference in the 20th century had to learn that, and so the Anglican Consultative Council (ACC) emerged. Throughout the century, Provinces and dioceses adopted synodical government.

    This could be seen as a modern adaptation of the Reformation Age association of the House of Bishops with Parliament, in place of papal dictatorship. It could also be argued that the pattern of government in the New Testament was by decision of full church membership, which could include slaves, with apostolic guidance.

    So, let us not depend on Primates alone to solve Anglican divisions. I recall with gratitude times in the past when the Primates and the ACC worked together. The Resolution of the Lambeth 1998 Conference, dealing with homosexuality, indicated that the Primates and the ACC should pursue the debate. Clearly, it was not decided by that somewhat unsatisfactory debate.

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