
Back in November, Surviving Church carried a piece I wrote about the travails of Wymondham Abbey in the Norwich Diocese. Although I tried as hard as I could to see the dispute from the perspective of the Vicar of Wymondham, my sympathies in the end went to the Bishop of Norwich, Graham Usher. He had inherited an impossible situation and he simply wanted the parish to function normally without further conflict.
To remind my readers of the story in outline. A new Vicar, Catherine Relf-Pennington, was appointed to the living of Wymondham in 2017. The candidate was, unusually, the existing curate who had worked in the parish since 2014. Soon after her appointment, problems and complaints started to emerge. Some were to do with pastoral issues and others to do with the alleged mismanagement of property and finance. Clearly, whether or not the complaints were justified, there were issues to be resolved with the support of outside guidance. The Bishop appointed two Visitors to carry out a formal visitation to the parish. On the basis of their report, he issued a Direction. Some of the sections in this Direction spoke to property issues and finance. However, the most interesting part of the Direction was the Bishop’s requirement that the Vicar offer a public apology to those individuals that she had upset. If this was done, then the Bishop assured the parish that all existing complaints and disciplinary processes would be immediately dropped and the parish would be helped to get back on to an even keel.
The intention that a public apology would resolve all the issues and tensions in the parish always seemed a long shot as a way of successfully resolving the problems in the parish. So it has proved to be. The Vicar and churchwardens have now issued a formal Response to the Bishop’s Directions, on January 17th, and this indicates how great the chasm still is between Bishop and the parish at Wymondham. It is twelve pages long and it is hard to anticipate how the dispute will go on from here. Speaking as a total outsider and forming judgements on the basis of what is in the press and in these formal documents, I have to say that my original preference for the Bishop’s position has now become a total backing. This fact that I believe him to be in the right in what he has said and done does not mean that I am clear what should happen next. There does not appear to be a plan B.
Why do I, as an outsider, now regard the position of the Vicar and churchwardens as not being one worth supporting. In the first place, there are on the church website a number of copies of letters of support for Mother Catherine, as she is called, to the Bishop. I find it uncomfortable that two of these letters are from children of primary age. The fact that a child relates well to an adult is a good thing, but not of great moment when you are trying to establish the nature of the overall pastoral care in a church community. Clearly an adult had to persuade the child to put pen to paper, so the existence of such letters feels contrived and inauthentic.
A second point that comes out of the Response, is that the tone of the whole document is off-putting. It also lacks anything by way of contrition. From beginning to end there is a kind of peevish sense of entitlement and not one concession to the fact that the Bishop, to whom you have sworn canonical obedience, might in any way be justified in his approach. This blog not infrequently suggests that bishops get things wrong, but there is normally an identifiable reason for such failures. Here it is hard to see anything to be gained for Bishop Usher other than the welfare of the people of Wymondham. The issue of the appropriation of the former Vicarage for the use of the suffragan bishop of Thetford has been made to be a cause celebre by those who wish to perpetuate a sense of division between parish and diocese. The affair sounds like a hijack, but I understand that the former Vicar had not lived in the building for some years, and it was in a state of disrepair. It needed considerable financial input from the Diocese to bring it back up to standard. Whatever the precise details of the ‘takeover’, they appear to be far more nuanced and complicated than the simple claim that the Diocese ‘stole’ our property.
To read in the Response that the parish believes that ‘Bishop Alan Winton’s and Bishop Graham’s behaviour in relation to Wymondham is unethical, immoral and self-serving’ comes as a jarring note. It would seem that the Bishop and Diocese had every reason, in the first place, to be alarmed about the finances in the church. It appears that, even according to the Vicar’s admission, there had been an ineffective treasurer presiding over a plethora of accounts and cheerfully running down reserves to pay diocesan quota. This financial disaster zone has to be recognised as the responsibility of every PCC member who, over a number of years, had failed to ask questions or seek clarity over the financial accounts. What was in the Annual Parish Report? It is the job of the Treasurer to make accounts understandable and the PCC members need to expect to be able to understand them. The same applies to every trustee in any charity. I would expect to see somewhere a contrite recognition of a massive failing of all PCC members over the past decade. Instead, we have the rather limp claim that the parish cannot now pay quota because the ex-treasurer, in plain sight, had used up all the reserves.
I have read the rest of the Response and much of it is to do with local issues which the Visitation Report had picked up and which formed part of the Bishop’s Direction. The main thing that the Response does not address in any way is the fact that there are and were unhappy people in the church and town who found the personality of the Vicar difficult and abrasive. Nowhere in the Response is there a hint of contrition or any plan to reach out to those who had complained to the Diocese. Obviously we are not privy to the detail of these complaints, but it is quite clear they have caused massive upset and division within the congregation. The other explanation for the failure to pay quota to the Diocese may simply be that the planned giving totals have dropped, with people voting with their feet.
There are various things that are not possible to discern from reading reports from two sides in an acrimonious dispute, so I returned to the parish website to try and get a feel for the priorities of the parish and its Vicar. While this is only impressionistic, I sense that the Vicar is far more comfortable with contemplative styles of prayer and worship than with other forms. I have no criticism of this kind of Christian practice, but it may clash with the expressed need of many Christians to experience the support of community with all its untidiness. There is evidently, even from the superficial evidence of the website and the documents, a lot to suggest that the Bishop’s evident desire for radical change in the parish is not unjustified. The Response, at the end of the document, finishes with these words ‘Something needs to be done’. Perhaps the Vicar and churchwardens can help work out a constructive way to do things at their end to make the ‘something’ happen.