One of the things we demand, when reading fiction or watching dramas on television, is that these fictional pieces have satisfying conclusions. The conclusion may not always count as a happy ending, but we do have a need to see loose threads tied up. The reader or watcher wants to believe that the world is basically an ordered and moral place, even if they know that this is not always true in reality. James Bond films illustrate well the victory of good in a fictional setting. However much the arch-villain may seem to have Bond in his control at some point in the plot, we know that something will come along to save our hero and reverse the situation of despotic power and the attempts at world domination.
Conclusions or happy endings are expected in the world of fictional drama. In real life they happen far less often, even though we may crave them. In the real world we frequently encounter situations that are left unresolved, where the forces of goodness do not seem to prevail, and individuals put up with unhappiness and pain. When there is an event involving abuse against a vulnerable person, there can never be a truly happy ending. The most one can look for is for justice to be obtained and that skilful support for those wounded will be found. Even this outcome is not always achieved. The trauma of abuse is likely to leave its mark for the whole of a victim’s life and have unforeseeable consequences. Money and therapy can contribute towards the needed healing, but what they can achieve is never close to a completed task.
One of the things that happens for me as the editor of this blog, is to receive a number of stories which seem to have no possibility of a tidy outcome. Two words, already mentioned, sum up the minimum that might be required for abuse victims to have a chance to begin to rebuild their lives. These words are justice and care. I hear about incidents of abuse of all kinds, some from long ago. More often, what these survivors want to share with me is not the event of abuse itself, but the later processes and institutional obstacles that have been placed in their way as they seek justice and support. We could claim to see these obstacles as a further experience of abuse. What has had to be endured by a survivor seeking justice and care is nearly always a two-stage process. First there is the original abuse with all its accompanying psychological and physical trauma. Then there is the battle to have that pain acknowledged by the institutions which had incubated the abuser in some way. Further, these organisations are neglecting to respond in anything like an adequate way when the evil is finally exposed.
Today (Sunday) there is an important story in the Sunday Times which seems, for the first time, to give a legal acceptance of the fact that sexual abuse can be perpetrated against an individual in two stages. The story in Sunday’s paper is a Catholic one, but the implication of the story is of importance to all churches. The story indicates that any deliberate ‘othering’ of survivors by a church body is of interest and concern to the courts. In the ST story, a female survivor had been abused by an RC priest at the age of 15. Legal compensation was eventually awarded to this victim by the Catholic authorities. Of much greater interest to all those who have witnessed the way that survivors are often mistreated by church institutions, is the second case taken out against the Catholic Church. This second case that was heard, quite separate from the first, related to attempts by the Church to intimidate and belittle the victim as she fought for justice and the recognition of her abuse. In short, the Catholic Church has been called to account and penalised for the institutional bullying of a victim seeking justice. The case against the Church will be a shot across the bows for all those in the churches who instruct their legal teams to undermine and discredit victims/survivors in sexual abuse cases. The case of Julie McFarlane contained a harrowing account of how she had to stand up to aggressive questioning from lawyers employed by the Church in their attempts to undermine her testimony. Hopefully such bullying behaviour in legal cases against survivors will be less tolerated in the future.
The emails I receive from individuals around the country describe some immensely complicated snarl-ups in the system of safeguarding around the country. Officially we have full-time diocesan safeguarding officers (DSOs) all over the country, but still, we do not find consistency in their professional training or abilities. Two problems quickly arise for these officers. One is the fact that no one has really defined the professional skills required for a DSO. I have before outlined the managerial and the pastoral skills that would seem to be basic. Then there is needed an understanding of law and the cluster of skills associated with social work. Last, but not least, the DSO needs to have some grasp of theological language which may be used by survivors and church officials. When the role of DSO finally acquires its own professional training scheme at a post-graduate level, then perhaps this range of skills will be defined in a way that helps to end this pot-luck approach to the appointment and deployment of DSOs around the country.
The second range of skills needed by our DSOs is far tougher. It is the ability to survive in structures which are sometimes dysfunctional to the point of creating unbearable levels of stress. Much of what is confidentially described to me of the inner workings of safeguarding within dioceses, suggests sometimes almost impossible working conditions for everyone involved. Officially, DSOs act independently and outside the official diocesan structures. In practice, they have to battle to preserve this independence. To describe this as difficult to achieve, is an understatement. It is hard to see how a DSO is supposed to behave in a highly politicised arena such as the Southwark diocese. Someone senior in the diocese, probably not the DSO, made the well-publicised decision to suspend and subsequently reinstate Stephen Kuhrt. Previously a senior diocesan figure kept Jonathan Fletcher’s loss of his PTO in 2017 firmly under wraps. This latter decision was kept so confidential that not even his constituency bishop, Rod Thomas, was told. A section of this blog has been removed following a legal request.
The sheer variety of standards and modes of practice among the safeguarding officers currently employed by the Church around the country provides an unpredictable environment for abuse cases to be dealt with well. What do people in the pew or among the clergy demand from a competent safeguarding officer? The thing they want to see above all is a person who is compassionate and listening, preserving a professional independence. No one wishes to have their negative experience of abuse compounded by an unfeeling toxic institutional response, one which is denying, defensive and totally lacking in compassion. It must be possible for a system of reporting abuse to be fair, just and preserving confidentiality. The people who write to me are often not being heard because the system of safeguarding is often politicised in a way to prevent it having integrity. Whenever church lawyers, archdeacons, DSOs and even bishops are thought to be manipulating the system in any way to suit their partisan purposes, the structures cannot function as they should. People of goodwill are squeezed out from the structures by these failures. We need to be able to insert that integrity back into the institutional structures before it is lost for ever.