
The BBC programmes on Peter Ball have naturally provoked a fair degree of comment, alongside expressions of regret and sorrow. Because Ball is no longer with us, it is possible to attempt to understand something of the whole. On Thinking Anglicans one commentator has provided additional intriguing information about Ball’s early years, his encounter with the clergy selection process and his sponsorship for ordination by none other than George Bell, then Bishop of Chichester. With his help, Ball negotiated the initial blocks put up by CACTM, the selection body, and obtained his first curacy in Bell’s diocese. Having become a ‘blue-eyed boy’ in Bell’s eyes, Ball was allowed to move on very quickly along his chosen path to an involvement with a school and later, in 1960, to found his own religious community. The early details are intriguing and are evidence of the considerable charm and powers of persuasion (manipulation?) that Ball was able to exercise over others right back at the beginning.
The crimes which finally sent Ball to prison and public disgrace are well-known. The overall theme of this blog has never wanted to spend time on dwelling on the details of the sexual deviations Ball was guilty of. It is however worth noting the fact that he appears to have been, for much of his life, fixated on abusing adolescent boys and young men. The only thing resembling a comment that I will insert here is one relating to a discipline beyond my expertise. I would surmise that such behaviour is possibly indicative of a disrupted maturing process. Part of his personality, in other words, seems never to have developed beyond his own adolescence. History would have been far more tolerant if he had had a secret liaison with a mature male partner in a genuine relationship of mutuality. What actually happened, the coercing and control of young vulnerable men, was evil and deeply harmful to his victims.
From my point of view, the deeply interesting part of Ball’s story is not this sexual behaviour but the way throughout his life he succeeded in covering up his crimes by the use of the techniques of persuasion and charm. The first victim of Ball’s charm was George Bell back in the 1950s. Bell wrote about him, when promoting his candidature for ordination. “Junior Squash champion for the South of England and Sussex, and is regarded as a possible Blue at Cambridge. He represented Lancing at soccer, athletics and tennis, besides being head prefect, and managing the school remarkably well, though undoubtedly a reserved boy. Surely this says something for character?” Although these are not the only remarks about Ball that were made, it is clear that the public-school persona and excellence at sport impressed Bell. To use my language, Ball was a ‘chap’, a secure member of the English social elite and much to be valued among the clergy at the time. This was apparently the dominant reality about his personality that overrode any other considerations in the eyes of his bishop.
This social confidence which attendance at Lancing had given Ball in those early years were finely honed at later stages of his life. Cambridge University in those days was attended by disproportionate numbers of boys from public schools. Later still Ball mixed easily with aristocrats, princes of the realm and senior politicians, such as Margaret Thatcher. Being part of the social elite and wearing all the confidence that goes with it, will always make it easier to hide whatever damaged aspects of the personality may exist. I am not in a position to speculate on the exact nature of the woundedness that enabled Ball to hurt and damage so many of his fellow human beings. These actions do suggest that he was indeed himself seriously flawed. The social power he possessed helped him to be in a place where he could put into effect his nefarious plans. Later on, he used the same social power to defend himself against the attacks of those who were to challenge his behaviour.
Alongside the social power that Ball obtained simply by being part of the public-school/Cambridge nexus of the early 50s, Ball possessed another form of power – charismatic power. It is difficult to define precisely what we are talking about when we use the expression charismatic power as it has social and religious meanings. But to summarise, it is the ability to inspire others, to point them to a place beyond the here and now. It suggests that the one with this ability is able to excite others with some vision for the future. Peter Ball was by all accounts an impressive speaker and preacher. As one of his clergy, for the short period while he was Bishop of Gloucester, I could see the way he operated. I did not have the insights of character analysis that I possess now, but I could see that Ball had ways of persuading people of his holiness and integrity which were compelling. It was hard to believe at the time that he was capable of cruel exploitative behaviour of young men. Large numbers of people were caught up in the myth of Ball’s holiness and very few were able to glimpse the reality of his narcissistic cruelty
One person who forms a crucial part of the Ball story, but whose role has not been closely examined is Margaret Thatcher. The first(?) meeting of Ball and Thatcher seems to have occurred in the immediate aftermath of the Brighton bombing of 1984. Ball was the local bishop (Lewes) and helped to provide a calm unflappable pastoral presence in the midst of the carnage. Thatcher, having noticed and befriended him sought to use her prime minister’s influence to push his name forward for a diocesan post. She was unable to achieve this during her tenure of office but the influence of Robin Catford, her ecclesiastical appointments secretary, seems to have prevailed under John Major who followed her. (For further information on this, see Colin Buchanan’s letter in the Church Times 24th Jan.) Thatcher’s active interest in ecclesiastical appointments is well-known. She helped to propel George Carey to Canterbury and Brandon Jackson to the Deanery at Lincoln. We cannot now disentangle the chemistry that linked Ball and Thatcher but we can speculate that she was, like many others, susceptible to his charismatic charm combined with finely honed social polish. It was this combination of skills that later served Ball well, even after he had been cautioned by the police in 1992. With it he distorted the judgement of both the Prince of Wales and the Archbishop of Canterbury. Both were drawn in to become Ball’s supporters even when there was demonstrable evidence of criminal behaviour. Somehow the sheer power that Ball possessed, charismatic and social, overwhelmed the capacity of both men to make rational coherent judgements about one of their fellow men.
A longer version of this paper, were it to be written, would want to explore further, from the clues that we are given, other dimensions of the life of Peter Ball. My own amateur assessment of his psychological profile suggests that he was the victim of a full-blown narcissistic personality disorder. This would account for a number of features in the story which are otherwise puzzling. How are we account for the evident convincing charm combined with an almost total absence of conscience? The ultimate ambition of Ball seems to have been the exercising of power to gratify his outsize ego. The sexual exploitation of adolescents was only one part of his wider insatiable desire to be admired and honoured. He especially looked to be noticed by the great and the good of society. Narcissism, charisma and charm all often work together and when in operation they are able to fool and confuse the rest of us. If we are to learn from this life of an extraordinary but deeply flawed individual, I believe we should understand Peter Ball primarily as a man who abused others through the misuse of his power. Beyond the dozens he sexually abused there are the thousands he fooled through his deadly manifestation of charm and faux holiness. That is the great devastating legacy of this man and, as I write this, I realise that I am among the many who during his life time were fooled in this way.