
Attending conferences abroad has become an increasingly difficult undertaking for me as I get older. I have doubts that I will want to face the challenges of Manchester airport during the holiday period in the future. However, this year the International Cultic Studies Association (ICSA) chose the vibrant and attractive city of Barcelona in which to hold their annual three-day event. I attended and presented a paper on the issue of exorcism and the way it is sometimes used inappropriately as a way of ‘caring’ for members of the LGBTQ+ community. This theme has become topical through some recent events in the Diocese of Sheffield.
The blog is not going to be a rehash of my words at the conference as most of this material has been shared with my blog readers over the years. I want, rather, to try and share a few of the main insights of some key contributors. These are those whose professional life has been dedicated to supporting and rebuilding those whose lives have been devastated through their membership of malign and controlling political or religious groups.
One topical idea circulating in the conversations and papers was the notion that a large sector of the population in the States is being recruited to join a massive societal cult under its leader, Donald Trump. The mechanisms that bind so many people to such a human leader, so eminently unsuitable for this leadership role, are not easy to explain. It seems we have to explore the ideas that come from attachment theory. All human beings, as children, pass through the stage of making strong attachments before they eventually become secure independent adults who know who they are and what they stand for. Another way of expressing this idea is to say that we aim to develop a strong core personality. This normal process may be disturbed in one of two ways. Some individuals never grow up in the sense that they continue to need their early attachment relationships for psychological survival. Others have made it through to the adult stage but then some serious experience of stress pushes them back to a childhood stage of vulnerability and an immature dependence on others. This vulnerability of immature dependence is found in many people. A failed marriage or the loss of a job may place the individual in a place where he or she is now ripe for recruitment to a cause or a person at the heart of a cultic group. Instead of having a strong mature personality at the centre, the vulnerable dependent person reaches out to find a strength in attaching him/herself to another. This may be a person or an idea/movement. From this attachment comes a ready-made instant cluster of ideas and opinions. No longer does one have to think or make decisions; the cult/ideology/cause/strong man does it for you. The individual personality, as far as it can be said to exist, has become largely an extension of the movement and of the leader at its head. The MAGA types in America have allowed Trumpism to be their mode of awareness. This way of thinking has the immediate advantage of relieving any stress involved in thought and reflection. To be able to say ‘this is what we think’ also gives the individual a reliable and gratifying sense of personal power and agency, a power mediated by the membership of the movement or the cult.
In the academic circles where the issue of cults is studied, the notion of ‘brainwashing’ has largely gone out of fashion. Rather than having something removed from the mind, the cult member has had something added on. The cult member is thought to have acquired a cult personality which may have successfully overlaid the true or core personality. This core is never in fact destroyed and it is the task of the therapist to excavate the buried core personality, a complex task. The fact is that there are precious few therapists in the UK who understand the dynamics of cultic groups. It requires a particular kind of insight to help extract this core personality which needs bringing to the surface and allowed once again to be the salient expression of who I or you are.
This model of thinking that presents the personality as possessing several layers is quite a challenging one to all our thinking about ourselves. How much of our presented personality is an extra defensive screen to keep others from knowing us too well? No one is likely to arrive at the perfect balance between living out the core self and the opposite extreme of hiding behind a variety of masks or defensive personae. Somewhere we try to achieve a ‘good-enough’ position which allows us to give and receive love in a way that nourishes us and at same time transforms and supports the people around us.
The conference in Barcelona was largely using the discourse of secular therapy in its efforts to provide support for cult victims. These victims had suffered because of the toxic and harmful ideas emanating from extreme political or religious groups. What was not brought up was, of course, any theological or biblical teaching that would help stop us falling into this trap of putting on a personality that betrayed or buried our true core identities. One of my favourite passages from Paul is the one where he expresses his joy at the thought that one day he ‘shall know even as I also am known’. This suggests to me that the Christian task is to have a great deal of concern for finding out our true identity and cutting through self-deceit. Such acquired fake personalities are at the heart of the cult problem. The Church of course also has a problem in this area. For example, how many of us have been to services where we feel caught up in an imposed but inappropriate jollity which is completely out of sync with the actual mood of the congregation. It is also vitally important for pastors dealing with individuals to discern what their clients are really feeling as opposed to coming to the ‘correct’ solution to their problem. Joy and sorrow are both part of human experience and thus being alongside another person may involve sharing their happiness or sitting with them in their pain. Once again, we have a passage that shows how Paul is able to reach and affirm the full reality of another human when he says, ‘rejoice with those who rejoice and weep with those who weep’. The capacity in this way to give of ourselves to others in need is one of the greatest gifts we have to offer.
The ICSA conference has left me with insight as to the way human beings are all somewhere on a journey towards authenticity or what we describe as wholeness or integrity. My Christian faith, together with my understanding of cult exploitation, has given me insight into the many ways this process can be disrupted when someone with an narcissistic appetite for power and gratification is allowed to corrupt and interfere with another person’s journey. The ways that we can hurt or be damaged by others, not least by being made to become something we are not in ways to benefit them, are examples of the power of evil at work. Somewhere in the middle of all the horror of human exploitation and abuse, whether in the cults or churches, there are biblical images that show what true relationships look like. Although some Christians seem very adept at extracting from scripture those texts and passages that assist them in nefarious activities of abuse, we can also find models that show us decisively how to love in a way that does what it is meant to do. It should ideally be all that strives to build up, transform and help others to find life in all its fullness. Although the world of relationships is seemingly hard to engage with, without ever causing any harm to another, we do have the possibility of evaluating our motives. This allows us to enable true transformative goodness to flow through us. Sometimes the apparent good and generous act turns out not to be so, but merely to bring benefit to the doer. Christian discernment and the traditions of ethical goodness should help us to know fairly accurately when things are genuinely altruistic and Christ-like. Christians cannot always be counted on to provide shining examples of human goodness but, at the very least, we should expect Christians to recognise goodness when they see it. Sadly, the safeguarding catastrophes of the past two or three decades have borne witness to a blunted and impoverished awareness of the nature of goodness, even among those who should be our esteemed leaders.