
One of the mysteries of the Anglican situation in the early 21st century is the way that the sexual activity of its members has come to occupy such a central stage. Many of us grew up in a time when discussing what went on in people’s bedrooms was a taboo. The swing from past reticence to the current situation, where one’s orthodoxy is judged by what one thinks of other people’s sexual preferences, is extraordinary. Historians in the future may look back to our time with puzzlement and ask this question of our generation. Why did the Anglicans of that era fight over this topic of sex, when there were so many other more important crises for them to confront – global warming, refugees, poverty and war?
I am in the process of reading a book which may give us a few pointers on our way to answering this question. It is a book about the rise and fall of a church network in America called Mars Hill. Situated in Seattle it was founded by the charismatic leader, Mark Driscoll. His youth and energy attracted thousands of young adults as members. The church eventually shut its doors in 2014 after credible accusations of power abuse. On this occasion it was not the story of a powerful leader taking sexual advantage of vulnerable young women. Rather it seems to have been a case of an empire builder who became intoxicated by raw power and wealth. He controlled not only a cluster of physical congregations in the Seattle area, but his influence stretched world-wide through successful on-line franchising of his preaching.
What was the secret of Driscoll’s success before he came to grief? One secret of the attractiveness of his preaching was that he was frequently prepared to speak about an area of life that most of us, understandably, have shied away from when in the pulpit – sex and its enjoyment in married life. For Driscoll there was a biblical duty for all couples to go into marriage with a determination to enjoy it in all its physical potential. In short Driscoll was fascinated, some would say obsessed, by the sexual aspect of married life. Making so much of the physical aspects of marriage, was a kind of exploration into what might be described as sacred pornography. He made the most of passages in the Song of Songs to explore the physical side of married life. It is not to be wondered at that his audience, consisting mainly of those in their twenties and thirties, were captivated and enthralled at his preaching.
The book by Jessica Johnson that discusses these ideas of Driscoll has the intriguing title Biblical Porn. This was published at the end of last year and it gives us detailed material about much of the teaching at Mars Hill. The emphasis of the book is not however an analysis of texts and Driscoll’s use of them. More importantly for our purposes, it explores the way that these teachings impacted on the individuals who heard them and tried to live by them.
We have already hinted at the fact that a preacher, who uses passages from the Song of Songs, may be appealing to the prurient levels of the personality. Ostensibly Driscoll was teaching his young hearers about ‘biblical marriage’. What he was doing at another level was to draw these young people into a trap of his making. His preaching was, in other words, an effective scheme to gain power for himself. Having gained their curiosity and attention, the next stage was to put the men and the women into confessional groups. Here they were expected to ‘confess’ their sexual sins, whether fantasising about members of the opposite sex, pornography, pre-marital relationships or other activities deemed to be sinful. Having engaged in this opening up, the members were then effectively in state of bondage to the leadership. From that point on, all their future sexual activity would be under scrutiny. Driscoll also seems to have freely used the information garnered in the confession sessions. This came up as illustrative material in follow-up sermons. The ‘sins’ and weaknesses of congregational members were also packaged up and effectively sold on to be ‘entertainment’ for Driscoll’s followers all round the world.
The ideal of biblical marriage which Driscoll claimed to want for his followers also did not prove to be easily obtainable. Although he extolled how wonderful it was to enjoy ‘biblical sex’, one imagines that there would have been frequent cases of ‘performance anxiety’ on the part of the men. Worse still were the potential pitfalls for the women. Not only were they enjoined to be constantly at the disposal of their menfolk for sexual purposes, they were also held to be in some way responsible if the men strayed into pornography or looking at other women. There is a lot in the sermons about women needing to make themselves seductively attractive and alluring as a way of keeping their men from straying.
Driscoll’s control over those who had bought into his ideas for biblical marriage had the hall-marks of a typical cult. The original lure was the titillation of listening to sexually-explicit sermons. This was followed by the time of confession. Once anyone had arrived at this point, it was almost impossible to draw back. The church now had control over them through knowing many of their guilt-laden secrets. All that remained was for them to try and attain the goal that had originally sounded so wonderful, biblical marriage. If they failed, as many of them must inevitably have done, they were held in this permanent thrall of feeling defeated. This would make them still more dependent on the leadership to help them move forward in some way. As with members of a cult, this dependence on the leadership would have been laced with a deep sense of guilt and fear. Many of them realised by now that giving away their sexual privacy had not been a good idea. Every one of these Mars Hill members should have had, in the beginning, a notice on their bedroom doors which stated quite clearly: ‘Keep out, our sex life is none of your business.’
Allowing a church to get deeply involved with the sex life of its members is always going to be a hazardous and potentially harmful activity. Of course, there will be times when a church leader is forced to say that betrayal or sexual misbehaviour by a congregant is an issue which needs to be faced and dealt with. The more pervasive sins that are encountered in a day-to-day situation will be the ones that relate to greed, selfishness or cruelty. Thanks to the public discourse of many conservative Christians, many people regard Christianity as only ever concerned about sexual sin. This is a very damaging to the Christian cause. It is also a gross distortion to the forms of behaviour that Jesus sought to outlaw. He was far more interested in exposing hypocrisy and power abuse (Matthew 23). When an excessive preoccupation with sexual behaviour is encouraged by Christian leaders, the truly important moral issues of the day are overlooked.
Mark Driscoll is a good example of how easy it is to get people feeling energised by playing the ‘sex card’. This made sure that his churches were places to attract plenty of attention, as well as arousing a maelstrom of feelings and passions among his hearers. Something similar seems to be happening every time a conservative preacher or church leader today talks about LGBT issues in a condemnatory way. People are made to feel strongly because talk of sexual behaviour always stirs people in a deeply personal area of their lives. What we see, when petitions are signed against liberal bishops, is the manipulation and stirring of strong human passions using rhetorical devices. Anglican Christianity is cheapened and discredited when it indulges in this kind of rousing of primal passion by popular preachers. We need, for issues as important as these, clear and calm discussion to replace the cheap and ill-thought out use of mass control techniques.








