One of my complaints about the Church safeguarding world is the ease with which people in authority in the Church forget things. Some forgetting may be to do with deliberate supressing of inconvenient truth. The burden of remembering shocking information is too uncomfortable. So, it has to be buried. The other part of not remembering unpleasant material from the past is the fact that information overload can take over. I certainly find the task of preserving and sometimes printing out hard copies of numerous safeguarding reports fairly tedious. There are just too many of them. But the effect on our memories is the same. Cases, reports and personalities get forgotten. A new generation of safeguarding officials appear who know little or nothing of what has gone before. This is, of course, a serious matter for a Church that is trying to turn over a new page in safeguarding. It wants to deal professionally with a complex relationship with its record over safeguarding back in the past..
The new book, Sex, Power and Control by Fiona Gardner, goes some way to removing at a stroke any temptation to allow the past record of church safeguarding to disappear from the corporate memory. It has never, of course, gone away for the actual victims. The institution of the Church of England, on the other hand, seems often to do a good job at forgetting. Old mistakes are repeated and ‘lessons learned’ seem not to change things. The present book is a careful analysis and a record of all the main incidents of abuse over the past ten or twenty years. In every case recorded we find not only the wickedness of an evil act against a vulnerable person, but also the often clumsy responses by those in authority in the Church. If we have to summarise these responses, we can say simply that they routinely make a priority of the needs of the institution rather than the welfare of survivors. One vignette, recorded by Fiona, concerns the aftermath of a scandal in her home diocese where she was working as a Safeguarding Adviser. Although she had a senior position, with many responsibilities in safeguarding, no one in the senior staff had thought to tell her of the past abusive activities of a particular priest in the diocese. He was now facing imprisonment. The Bishop and the senior staff were having a meeting to discuss the ‘washing up’. By this they meant the attempts to mitigate the reputational and financial damage to the diocese. The victim in this case was never mentioned. Somehow the embarrassment that the Bishop was experiencing was projected on to Fiona. She was made to feel that the whole incident was in some way her fault. It is small wonder that Fiona only managed to complete six years in the post before moving on.
Of the rest of the stories and cases recorded in Fiona’s book, many are well known. But, as I have already suggested, many of these stories are becoming obscured by the passage of time. An endless succession of new stories seem to crowd in to take their place, grabbing the attention of a watching public. I wondered aloud with Fiona when she asked me to write the foreword. ‘Can you really write about cases of Church abuse when this safeguarding scene is constantly in flux? Will the book not be out of date the moment it is printed?’ I have come to see that the writing of a book recording things as they were at the very end of 2020 is an important thing to do. Sex, Power, Control provides a kind of benchmark against which to evaluate the journey from the past into what we hope will be a better future.
Three things give the book its distinctiveness. One I have already alluded to is that we have here a guide, sympathetically told, of the main church abuse cases and the response to them the mid-90s up till 2020. Thus we read of the cases of the Nine O’clock service, Matt Ineson, ‘Joe’ and Julie McFarlane among many others. The accounts are in accordance with the facts as gleaned from the individuals concerned or from one of the documented accounts that has appeared in the net. Secondly the stories are told within the context of a well-informed perspective. Fiona is an acute observer. She brings to bear her training in psychoanalytic psychotherapy. This approach is a refreshing change from the official management methods that are typically on offer in the Church bodies that deal with abuse cases. The Church leaders that have tried to offer empathy or understanding to the survivors have often revealed a curious detachment from their sufferings. The choice of language emerging from Church leaders often reveals the priorities merely of reputation management. The current prevailing atmosphere in the Church of England is one that prioritises better systems of management. Growth and the smooth functioning of the institution is what matters. This is perhaps not the message of healing that survivors need to hear.
The third perspective, which I welcome unreservedly, is that Fiona’s indispensable book is written with a strong bias for the perspective and needs of survivors. She ‘gets’ their pain, their patience, their frustration and their waiting for justice. Her witness for the perspective of survivors is made stronger by her having worked for the ‘other side’ of safeguarding as a diocesan adviser. Her testimony about that six-year experience is telling. She found herself to be an embarrassment in the Diocesan Office, as though the stuff she was dealing with was somehow contaminating the real work of the Church. No one there wanted to admit that shameful things were going on. The issues which one brave person was facing were, in fact, everyone’s business. I wonder how much this experience is today shared by other Advisers/Officers up and down the country. To work where there is any kind of resistance to the work you do is bound to cause stress for the officer concerned. Is it any wonder that many DSOs/DSAs have remarkably short tenures of office?
What I have written here about Sex, Power, Control is not meant to be a review. I am disqualified, in any event, from writing a review by the fact my name appears on the cover as having written a short foreword. But even with this admission of bias, I still want to speak positively about the book and urge all my readers to buy it. If like me, you are interested in the phenomenon of abuse and power and want to understand things better, this book is for you. If you are a safeguarding professional who needs to know what has gone on the Church of England over the last 20+ years, this book is an essential resource. It is never going to be helpful, if a new generation of professionals come into this safeguarding world and do not know at the outset the stories of Peter Ball, Garth Moore, Trevor Devamanikkan, John Smyth and the Titus Trust. All these stories are told complete with references from the internet and elsewhere. In short, everyone who makes a living in the safeguarding should be required to buy this book or have it bought for them.
The final group who should read the book are the survivors. They will know much of the factual material, but they will receive encouragement from the fact that this is written by someone who really understands their plight. As I have often said, the ordeal of the survivor is often made far worse in the encounter that he/she has with church officials who may be emotionally or pastorally illiterate. While I have not met Fiona Gardner, her book reveals her to be someone who seems to resonate expertly with the needs of abuse survivors, both at the time of their abuse and also with those who may have been further wounded by later toxic interventions of the institution. The Church as a whole needs her expertise and wisdom.
Although I am disqualified from writing a review, I can still hope that many of my readers will acquire it as it seems an excellent path to understanding the joint issues of abuse and power in the Church. It will, I hope, be one more tool in the task of educating a Church that needs to understand both these issues far better. I recommend it and hope it will be greeted with success.
Sex Power, Control Responding to Abuse in the Institutional Church by Fiona Gardner, Lutterworth Press 2021. The book publication date is next Thursday February 25th.